SEXUAL DIVERSITY DURING YOUNG ADULTHOOD
Women and men who have gender identities and sexual orientations that differ from social norms have long-term and committed relationships despite the social constraints against them. The accomplishments, problems, and decisions that these people make within relationships are similar to the ones made by straight women and men who fit the social norms.
Gay and straight couples experience the same frequency of sex, talk about who initiates sex, and decide whether or not to have children. They are equally satisfied with their relationships.
Many gay people live their sexual orientation in a hidden way. The common expression is “in the closet.” They keep their sexual orientation a secret out of fear of losing loved ones, housing, or a job. Increasing numbers of gay people and those perceived to be are more overt about their sexual orientation. They live their lives out in the open and are “out” to others. Some people feel safe being out to only some of the people in their lives—to coworkers, but not family, for example. Others feel safe being out to all the people in their lives.
Coming out is a personal decision. It is a decision that gay people have to make over and over again, each time new people are introduced into their lives.
In response to the homophobia and antigay prejudice of our society, gay people have formed communities of their own in which they can feel safe. There is now a growing gay culture. In some cities, such as New York and San Francisco, being gay is becoming socially acceptable. Gay communities have bars, restaurants, dance clubs, community centers, and magazines. Since gay liberation in the late 1960s, lesbian and gay and bisexual women and men have been fighting for the same rights that are afforded to straight people. This includes the legal and civil rights afforded to straight married couples.
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