JUNK SEX VS LOVING SEX – SEX AND RELATIONSHIP
As goes sex, so goes the relationship—that is the premise of this book. If two would-be lovers are blocked in the sexual sphere, they will be blocked in other spheres as well. If they are unable to achieve authentic sexual bonding, they will be unable to truly bond with themselves or with others. Their social, professional, and parental lives will all suffer. Most important, their relationship with themselves will also suffer.
Hence, if there is any one avenue that can be crucial to restoring love and tenderness to a marriage, as well as authenticity and meaning to one’s life, it is the sexual avenue. Other methods may serve the same purpose, but sex seems to be the most direct route.
There are some truisms about sexuality that bear repeating. Sexuality, quite obviously, is much more than the mere act of copulation. It is nature’s way of ensuring the continuation of the human species, and, as such, it is the grandest act of all, with many layers of meaning. Any sex is better than no sex, but at its most mature and deepest level, sex brings about the most profound kind of intimacy and bonding. It forces us to confront and resolve our most stubborn barriers to intimacy— barriers to both ourselves and others. If we can truly relate to even one other person, we can then relate to ourselves and to all others also.
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